Perhaps the first thing you might do when we are over this ordeal is learn to at least adjust your reeds! Can you see, now, how beneficial that might be? Even if you are never going to fully learn the craft (but you SHOULD if you plan on continuing oboe after high school and even high school students should be learning, imo) you would find knowing what to do with reeds a very handy thing when your teacher isn’t able to help you.

Think about it.